HGD Crossroads

Tag: goal setting

  • Learn the basics of Goal Investigation

    Learn the basics of Goal Investigation

    Take the overwhelm out of your Crossroads Journey

    Learn how to investigate your goals and take the overwhelm out of navigating the crossroads you are currently at, whether that’s in your career, your life, your relationships, or even how you manage your money. This video will step you through getting a look at your life now. Idea Playground of your paths you are exploring. Then you will set up your first short-term goal.

    Get a snapshot of your life now

    So that you know where you want to go, you will first need to know where you are right now. So in your journal, or if you are part of the HGD Crossroads Program, use the Life Assessment and Reflection Worksheet.

    How satisfied are you with your Wealth Life Area: that is your career/job/occupation or business, what you do with your money, any debt that you have, and any savings or investments that you may have.

    You will use a scale from 1 (most satisfied) to 5 (least satisfied) [on-screen text: the Satisfaction scale]. And next, how important is your Wealth Life Area to you? 1 being the most important and 5 being the least important.

    How satisfied are you with your Relationship life area: this is all of your relationships – family, friends, partner, workmates. Using the same scale, rate how satisfied you are. Now, how important are your relationships to you?

    Finally, you will look at your wellbeing life area: this encompasses your health and fitness, your overall wellbeing, your living conditions, what you do in your free time, how relaxed you are, and your feeling of being in control of your life.

    Once you have this snapshot, take a few moments to journal a reflection. How do you feel about where your holistic life is right now? What do you want to change? What area of your life are you happy with right now? What area of your life needs attention right now?

    Idea Playground

    Now that you know where you are, we can start brainstorming where you want to go, or the crossroads that you are at. This will help you with the next step, where you will plan your first short-term goal or trial Crossroads path.

    On a fresh page in your journal or in the Idea Playground worksheet, either create a mind map or free-write your thoughts. From your life snapshot, what do you want to explore more? Do you have an idea of what your short-term goal will be? Just dump all of your thoughts out of your brain and onto the page. This will help to free up your brain and help you to gather your thoughts about what you want to achieve.

    Your short-term goal roadmap

    Now that you know where you are in life, and you have dumped your thoughts, let’s get the goal details fleshed out.

    1. Give your goal a title
    2. Describe your goal
    3. When do you want to achieve your goal? The goal deadline.
    4. What does goal success look like? How will you know you have achieved your goal?
    5. What do you need for your goal?
    6. What do you already have for your goal?
    7. What do you have to do to achieve your goal? Your action steps.
    8. Out of what you have to do, what is the first action step?
    9. Remember to record your achievements and to celebrate them

    If you would like to go deeper with your Crossroads Journey, head over to my website and enrol in Module 1: Basics or book in for a 1:1 Video Call Goal Investigation Session. https://hgdnz.online/

    Bye for now, go and take your first action step.

  • Your Dream Plan: Month 1 – Clarity & Confidence

    Are you ready to start building the life you actually want? Month 1 of Your Dream Plan Action Life in 12 Months is all about Clarity & Confidence — getting clear on what matters most and taking your first small, meaningful steps forward.

    This month is designed to help you reflect, prioritise, and begin creating momentum without overwhelm. Think of it as your foundation month: everything you do here will make the next 11 months easier, more focused, and far more intentional.

    What to Expect This Month

    Your Month 1 journey is broken into four weekly steps, each building on the last. You don’t need to have all the answers — you just need to show up and explore.

    Week 1 – Brain Dump + Clarity Starter

    This week is about getting everything out of your head. The goal is to notice what matters most, identify the noise, and start to see patterns. You’ll explore your life as it is now, without judgement, and start uncovering the areas that need attention.

    Week 2 – Boundaries + Energy Check-In

    Where is your energy going? What drains you? What fuels you? This week helps you notice your patterns and begin making space for what supports your goals. It’s about creating a sustainable rhythm — not doing more, but doing what truly matters.

    Week 3 – Micro Dreams + Action Planning

    Small, intentional goals are powerful. This week, you’ll identify your Micro Goals — the actionable steps that are meaningful, achievable, and aligned with your priorities. These small wins build momentum and confidence.

    Week 4 – Progress Review + Next Step Planning

    By week 4, you’ll reflect on your progress, celebrate wins (even the small ones!), and shape a personalised plan to move into Month 2 with clarity and momentum.

    How You’ll Work Through Month 1

    You’ll be supported every step of the way:

    • Weekly worksheets: Brain dumps, reflections, and goal planners to guide your journey
    • Check-ins via email: Optional personalised feedback through email packs
    • Space to reflect and act at your own pace: No pressure, no live calls — just consistent, meaningful support

    Your Mission This Month

    By the end of Month 1, you’ll have:

    • A clear sense of what matters most in your life right now
    • Identified your energy drains and sources of support
    • Started working on at least one Micro Goal
    • Built confidence in taking consistent, small actions
    • A personalised plan to carry forward into Month 2

    Remember: this isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress, reflection, and action — one email, one worksheet, one step at a time.

    Next Step

    Your journey starts with Week 1: the Brain Dump + Clarity Starter. Start exploring your thoughts, feelings, and priorities — and don’t worry if it feels messy. This is your life, your pace, and your path.

    By showing up now, you’re already moving towards the life you truly want. Let’s get started!

  • When the Roadblocks Aren’t Visible

    When the Roadblocks Aren’t Visible

    This is what it looks like to live with chronic pain and PTSD. There are no visible signs that anything is wrong. Like the saying goes, you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. Just because someone looks like everything is okay doesn’t mean that it is.

    Sometimes the biggest roadblocks aren’t the ones people can see. They’re the ones that happen quietly — in your body, in your mind, in your energy levels. Chronic pain, mental health challenges, grief, burnout… they can all slow progress in ways that don’t show up on the outside.

    Here’s what I’ve learned about moving forward when your roadblocks are invisible:

    1. Set flexible milestones. Give yourself space to adjust deadlines if your health or circumstances shift.
    2. Use micro-steps. On tough days, even 5 minutes of progress counts.
    3. Plan for recovery time. Build rest into your schedule the same way you build in work.
    4. Celebrate quiet wins. Not every victory has to be big to matter.
    5. Communicate when needed. You don’t have to share everything, but letting trusted people know your needs can ease the load.

    If you’re facing roadblocks — visible or not — remember: progress isn’t about speed, it’s about direction. Even small steps can keep you moving toward your goals.

  • ✨ Movement, Mindset, and Motivation — In Your Inbox

    ✨ Movement, Mindset, and Motivation — In Your Inbox

    How Email Coaching Can Support the Life You’re Designing

    📝 Real Talk
    Let’s be honest — staying motivated isn’t easy.
    Whether you’re rebuilding after burnout, navigating grief, or juggling all the hats, sometimes the hardest part is just keeping yourself going.

    Here’s the truth:
    💡 Motivation will let you down.
    That’s not a flaw — it’s just life.

    The key?
    Build habits that hold you — especially on the days you don’t feel like showing up.
    Habits rooted in clarity, support, and kindness — not pressure.

    🌿 Maybe You’re:

    • Overworked
    • Burned out
    • Holding it all together for everyone else
    • Recovering from trauma or grief

    Whatever your story, you deserve support.
    Pause.
    Take a deep breath.
    Let’s set you up to take care of you.

    💌 Enter: Inbox Investigators

    My simple, flexible, email-only coaching program.
    No Zoom. No pressure. Just gentle, personal support — in your inbox.

    👉 Explore the coaching plans here

    🌱 The Trio That Keeps You Going

    🏃‍♀️ Movement

    Encouragement to take action — even when energy is low.

    Examples:

    • Task check-ins
    • Mini goal-setting nudges
    • Gentle accountability

    🧠 Mindset

    Support to reframe challenges and celebrate progress.

    Examples:

    • Coaching reflections
    • Reassurance that it’s okay to pivot
    • Encouragement to rest without guilt

    ⚡ Motivation

    Delivered when you need it most — no Zoom, no judgment.

    Examples:

    • Weekly prompts
    • Celebrating wins (big and small)
    • Support without overwhelm

    💌 Why Email Coaching Works

    Life doesn’t always follow a schedule — and inbox support lets you grow at your own pace.

    It’s flexible.
    It’s personal.
    And it’s powerful — especially if traditional coaching feels too intense or out of reach.

    You don’t have to:

    • Show up perfectly
    • Have all the answers
    • Push through exhaustion

    You just need to start — and I’ll meet you where you are.

    🎯 Choose Your Coaching Path

    Whether you need a light check-in or a full coaching journey, Inbox Investigators has a plan that fits:

    ✅ Lite Week – A gentle, low-pressure start
    ✅ Trial Plans – Full access, no ongoing commitment
    ✅ Monthly or Bundled Plans – For steady support and savings

    👉 Click here to explore the coaching plans

    💛 You’re Not Behind

    You’re not failing.
    You’re designing your life — one step at a time.